This week, we sat down with Peaches to discuss being a pro-domme with sex-repulsion, finding a place in the kink community after experiencing trauma, and watersports/bodily fluids.
Introduction to Kink, Watersports, and Sex Repulsion
Peaches’ Radioactive Spider Bite Into Kink began with stumbling across kinky porn on Tumblr when they were younger. They enjoyed the look of bondage and decided to dig deeper into kink and BDSM. In their early days of exploring kink, they would masturbate pretending as if they were in various rope bondage positions, as well as using a wooden spoon to do self-impact play. They realized how much they loved kink and BDSM, and never looked back from there.
Watersports and Bodily Fluids
Next, we talk about piss, watersports, and bodily fluids. Their interest in watersports began when they discovered how good they are at holding their pee, and they found it exhilarating to see how long they could hold their pee for. They remember at one point taking an ACT-prep class that was twelve hours per day, being too nervous to ask where the bathroom was, and realizing that they enjoyed the experience.
One form of play they enjoy doing is going out with people who are also interested in watersports and having another person dictate how much they drink, as well as when (or if) they get to pee. They talk about how this adds “zest” to a simple night out and makes life more fun. They also love coming home and getting to pee on the person they were playing with, and how the full release is like a mental orgasm. Peaches and Gwen discuss how pleasurable the full-body shiver is that happens when your bladder is full, and how it’s similar to the sensation that comes from ASMR.
We then get into a discussion about how sex and fantasy are exciting for some people and relaxing for others. Gwen fantasizes about sexual scenarios to fall asleep every night, where Dick and Peaches say that creating an elaborate fantasy is something that would keep them awake for hours. Peaches will start thinking about every little aspect of how they would build a scene, and it becomes a sort of an obsession.
Sex-Repulsion and Kink
For Peaches, bodily fluids aren’t disgusting at all—they’re repulsed by penetrative sex, but bodily fluids are normal and hot for them. We talk about how partners’ scents, like their sweat, are comforting for us.
A lot of Peaches’ kinks and fetishes come from working as an educator at Planned Parenthood. When patients were open to it, Peaches would ask about the types of things they were into, and in turn, Peaches would do research and get into those kinks and fetishes themselves. Peaches also talks about how to re-learn to enjoy getting hit (consensually) after sexual assault, as well as how to enjoy intimacy while having sex-repulsion. They also share how they got back into having power taken away from them after their sexual assault.
They talk about the type of work they do as a sex-repulsed pro-domme. Most of what they do is related to watersports and bodily fluids because they always enjoy making that type of content and will never get a trauma response from it. For other people who are interested in sex work who are sex-repulsed, Peaches recommends making a list of types of content you’re interested in and experimenting to see if any of the types of content trigger a trauma response until you discover what works for you.
Finally, Peaches answers listener questions about how their sex-repulsion manifests, advice for folks who want to join the kink community after experiencing sexual trauma, and relationship advice for those who are on the asexual spectrum.
Related Information
Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you’d probably like episodes 246, 235, and 195.
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