This week, Dick and Gwen strapped Lexi into the hot seat for her first time as a guest! We discussed her interests in medical kink as a bottom, as well as humiliation and embarrassment as a top.
Introduction to Medical Kink
We start off by asking Lexi our age-old question, “what was your Radioactive Spider Bite into Kink?” and she discusses the many things that got her into medical play as a child. She talks about how she would pretend that her stuffed animals were doctors using a Little Tykes medical set on her. She also talks about a scene from The Rescuers Down Under, in which a bird ends up in a mouse hospital, that awakened a lot of horny medical feelings for her.
We then move on to her interest in medical kink as a bottom. When Lexi realizes a strong kink interest, she likes to try to get to the root of it. For medical kink, she thinks that the main thing she finds hot about it is power play. She mentions that she was homeschooled growing up, therefore she didn’t have a lot of typical power dynamics in her life (like teacher/student, etc.) besides when she would see the doctor. Lexi always found it hot that she was uncomfortable at the doctor’s, and that she would have to show her body to an adult she didn’t know personally. She’s always found it to be one of the most vulnerable power play situations there is.
Ethics of Medical Kink
We also discuss the ethics of medical kink. In fantasy, Lexi thinks about doctors abusing their power. She often wrestles with being turned on by stories of medical professionals taking advantage of people even though she is horrified and disgusted by them in real life, and we talk about how many people struggle who are turned on by dark scenarios struggle with this. It’s important to remember that it’s okay to be turned on by a scenario in fantasy, and it doesn’t mean that you’re okay with the same situation happening in real life.
Medical Kink and Pain Play
Lexi also talks about how when she says she’s into medical kink, a lot of people assume that she’s in to needles and other medical situations involving pain. In reality, this couldn’t be further from the truth. Lexi has a lot of real life fears about needles and painful medical situations, and would potentially like to experiment with them one day, but she explains that just because she’s into medical play, it doesn’t mean people should assume that she wants to play with needles.
Topping for Humiliation and Embarrassment
She tends to lean more toward embarrassment than humiliation, even though many might consider them to be the same kink. Lexi makes the distinction between the two because she’s not necessarily into verbally degrading people—she more so likes to make people blush and feel embarrassed. We get into an interesting discussion about the differences between humiliation and embarrassment, and why people tend to lump them together.
Another thing that Lexi enjoys is coaxing information out of phone sex clients, and making them feel embarrassed to tell her their interests. This leads Dick to wonder whether she enjoys getting information from people, or having them do the things they’re interested in more. Lexi likes them both equally, whereas Dick enjoys getting the information out of people more than actually having them do what they’re interested in. Gwen brings up how this makes sense, because at one point Dick had her make a list for him of every kink and fetish she had that she could think of, even if they don’t play with everything on the list.
Finally, we answer listener questions about switching, the ethics of incorporating medications into medical kink scenes, how to negotiate playing with embarrassment, and more.
Related Information
Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you’d probably like episodes 243, 169, and 098.
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