Hi everyone! It’s Mistress Bunny here from episode 226, in which we delved into wetting fetish, as well as the intimacy and vulnerability that comes with it. We’ve all done it at some point, whether intentionally or unintentionally, so take back the power and piss yourself for some intimate, erotic pleasure!

What is Wetting/Omorashi?

Wetting, also called omorashi, is when one pees in their clothing, either voluntarily or due to a predicament. It’s super satisfying as a voyeur and a participant!

Risk-Aware Wetting 

Before getting into this type of play, you should be aware of any potential risks associated with engaging in it. Here are some tips to keep in mind in order to stay safe while wetting yourself:

• Don’t drink too much & take note of how much you drink. We know you want to squirm and have to pee very badly before letting it all out, but seriously, don’t overhydrate yourself. This is a real concern that can be incredibly dangerous. If you’re drinking lots of fluids and start to get headaches or nausea, stop immediately, consume some salt, and call a doctor.

• If there’s pain, let it out. Maybe you enjoy the extra obstacle of piss-holding challenges where you can’t go until a set amount of time passes or until you helplessly end up pissing yourself. This can be great, but if you feel any pain, let it out. You could do liver or bladder damage by holding urine too long, and besides, the fun is in the wetting anyways!

• Don’t wear your wet clothes for too long.  This is up to you, obviously, but it’s always recommended you change clothes even after exercising or excessive sweating, let alone when your clothes are piss sodden. The concern here is potential UTIs and bladder infections—better to be safe than sorry!

A person holding their crotch as if they have to pee, an act that can be arousing to someone engaging in wetting fetish.

How to Prep for Pissing Your Pants (aka, The Good Stuff)

Choosing Your Clothes 

If you’re engaging in wetting fetish, clothing choice is definitely something you’ll want to consider. Think about what the material will feel like against your body as urine warms your clothing, and/or what it will look like if you or a partner are watching. Typically, thicker fabrics like jeans or cotton will absorb more wetness and stay warmer longer, whereas thinner fabrics like spandex or lycra won’t hold any urine in them and will grow cold more quickly. Thicker fabrics will also usually leave a larger wet spot on your clothes, leaving visual evidence of your “accident,” while thin fabrics might leave you in an embarrassing puddle! Additionally, when it comes to color options, it’s not hard to imagine that lighter colors will have a more noticeable (sometimes see-through) wet spot, versus a dark fabric which will usually hide a wet spot pretty well (unless it’s fresh!).  

Clothing choice when wetting is such a pleasurable aspect of this kink because it lends itself so well to a variety of scenes or fantasies. Imagine a teacher/student scene where the student “accidentally” pees their skirt and panties, leaving a very obvious puddle, and causing their panties to become so completely see-through that their “teacher” sees everything. Think about a runner, cyclist, or gym fanatic casually pissing right through their lycra clothes whenever they want as they go about their exercise since no one will see or know about their naughty little deed. There are so many ways to play with this kink based on clothes alone, so get creative and have some fun!

Where To Go

Again, get creative—the choice is all yours! If you’re at home and worried about cleanup, you can always opt for the easy-to-clean tile floors of a bathroom or kitchen, plus you can have the fun of trying to hold your pee while doing the dishes or cleaning the bathroom.

If you’re a little more daring, invest in a waterproof blanket found at any local adult shop. They’re fantastic for absorbing fluids for many types of WAM play, and they can be thrown in the wash and ready to use for your next wet scene. This offers up the fun of you and your partner snuggling up on the couch during a movie and not having to get up for any reason. A waterproof blanket is also great when combined with bed bondage if you place it above the sheets before strapping down your desperate submissive. 

If you’re looking for the thrill of a little humiliation play, take it outside! There are plenty of ways to piss yourself discreetly outdoors. If you’re on a walk and in a skirt, no one can tell. If it’s late at night and you’re outside wearing dark clothes (or if it’s raining), passersby probably won’t see your wet spot either. Have you ever been desperate to pee and stuck in traffic? Car desperation is another simple way to take your desperation and holding outside of the house.

Getting Ready to Burst 

It’s up to you how desperate you want to be when you piss yourself, whether you want to be jumping up and down, crotch-grabbing, leg crossing, or if you’d like the ease of peeing yourself whenever the need hits. Obviously, hydration helps, but as mentioned earlier, please be mindful of how much you drink in a short amount of time. Hydration also impacts whether or not you’ll have clear and mild-smelling urine, versus darker, more pungent urine. Depending on what kind of sensory experience you’re looking for, you’ll want to take all of this into consideration when planning your scene, especially as it can take time to hold long enough to get desperate.

Someone standing in a puddle.

How It’s Done

Now that you have all the parameters, it’s time to choose the clothes you’ll be pissing in. Depending on your situation, it might also be time to plan with a partner how you would like the scene to go. Keep in mind issues that might come up, such as pee-shyness or difficulty peeing in positions/locations that you’ve never peed in before.  

During play, you (and/or a partner) can decide if peeing yourself will be a dominant or submissive role, if any at all. A lot of the time folks perceive the submissive as the one who wets themselves, but there’s a wide variety of exciting scenes you can incorporate wetting fetish into. For example, if your submissive is as intensely aroused by watching the act as I am, you could drive them mad by doing so. You could pee yourself while up against your submissive, wetting their clothes too. Even better, wet your partner’s clothes so it looks like they were the one peeing themselves.

Power exchange isn’t even necessary to enjoy wetting. You could play holding games with yourself, pee in clothes without others knowing, or casually wet while busying yourself with video games, cleaning, or housework. It can feel liberating to pee wherever and whenever you feel like it!

Someone wearing a skirt with their hands bound behind their back.

What Types of BDSM or Roleplay Complement Wetting Fetish?

God, so many!  Wetting fetish is an incredibly intimate and vulnerable type of play that can intensify any scene. Here are some examples that arouse me, personally:

• In ABDL or DD/lg roleplay, remind your little just how little they are by forcing them to “hold their pee like a big kid,” and cherish, reward, or punish them when they fail miserably (as to be expected).
• Pet play offers many opportunities to incorporate watersports, such as making your pet pee on puppy pads, outside, or in litter boxes. Add bit of mind play by putting clothes on them that they can’t remove (since they’re only a pet), so when they have to pee, they’re reminded just how much of a pet they are.
• Hypnosis or mind control can be an interesting way to incorporate wetting. If you’re playing alone, there are lots of self-hypnosis wetting videos online.
  
• If you’re in a power exchange dynamic of any kind, you might consider asking your submissive to give you another layer of their autonomy through bathroom-use-control. Bathroom-use-control can be a delightful way to watch your submissive suffer in desperation, or to embarrass them completely by making them wet themselves. One of my favorite choices that a dominant can offer is, “Pee your pants right now, or hold it for X amount of time and then I’ll let you go.”

A woman in a schoolgirl uniform made to sit in the corner while she has to pee.

Why You Should Try Wetting as Soon as Possible!

I’ve already given you 101 hot reasons to piss yourself, but just in case you needed a little extra push (maybe on your bladder), here are even more reasons why you might enjoy wetting fetish.

Control

Giving control to others can be really hot and exhilarating. This can be done in a power exchange scene, or even when you’re going about your day and have obligations that come before using the restroom. The idea of needing to pee and not always being in control of where and when you can is incredibly arousing.

Helplessness

I love watching people helplessly piss themselves. I love when they aren’t in control of their body anymore and can’t stop themselves. To me, there really isn’t anything hotter—helplessness and desperation are incredibly fun to watch for those who are even just a little bit sadistic. Especially if they’re embarrassed!

Physical Evidence of A Taboo Act 

You can’t deny it, you pissed yourself. If anyone saw you like this they would know instantly, and who knows how they’d react? This is similar to bruises after impact play or getting hickies after a fun makeout session—you know what you did.

Vulnerability & Deeper Subspace

For some, peeing themselves is a big deal, while for others it might not mean much at all. Wherever you are on the spectrum, there’s a level of vulnerability you’re bringing into a wetting scene by doing an act in front of your partner we normally do alone, let alone one that is so societally shamed. Handing over bladder control during power exchange can work to deepen subspace through the constant reminder that you have to ask for permission every time you have to pee.

Sense of Calm 

During wetting fetish scenes, the act of being given permission to pee yourself in your clothes or a place you’re not supposed to can be really hot, but it’s also intimate and can give a feeling of total acceptance. Additionally, the relaxation that comes with being able to pee whenever and wherever is often relieving, and is an exciting way to strip away all sense of societal expectations in places where it’s safe to do so.

As with any kind of play involving this much intimacy and vulnerability, you should ensure that you’re doing post-scene aftercare for everyone involved. Have fun planning your upcoming wetting scene (and tell me about it at the next munch)!

Mrs. Bunny is a part-time player and full-time sex toy salesperson who has worked in the adult industry for almost 5 years now. Her expertise lies in sex toy products and her interests and playstyle include wetting, bdsm, dd/lg, petplay, pain topping and much more. Feel free to reach out to her on Fetlife or on Discord if you’re looking for any sex toy recommendations!